FOURTH DAY. St. Joseph, model of fathers

By: Msgr. Alberto José González Chaves

FOURTH DAY. St. Joseph, model of fathers

Prayer to the Father

Eternal Father, source of all light and all paternity in heaven and on earth:
your Word made flesh, Jesus Christ our Lord, wanted to learn to obey and love
in the silence of the home of Nazareth,
under the watchful and humble gaze of Joseph, your faithful servant.
You wanted to entrust to this just man the two greatest wonders of your love:
Jesus, your beloved Son, and Mary, full of grace.
Make us, by contemplating his noiseless faith, his prompt obedience,
his hidden strength and his clean and faithful heart,
learn also to live the Gospel in the simplicity of each day,
to guard the grace received
and to persevere in goodness even when the night seems long.
Your Son wanted to live subject to Joseph on earth,
because in this holy Patriarch you placed a mystery of spiritual paternity
for your entire Church.
Grant us, therefore, that by approaching him with filial confidence
we learn the hidden fidelity of Nazareth,
the prompt obedience to your will
and the silent love that sustains Christian life.
Through Jesus Christ, your Son,
who wanted to live subject to the earthly authority of the carpenter of Nazareth
and to love him with filial love.
Amen.

Invocation to the Holy Spirit

Come, Holy Spirit, gentle light that filled the house of Nazareth with grace.
Form in us the Heart of Christ according to the strong and faithful model of Saint Joseph,
so that we may learn from him silent obedience,
the purity of the soul and fidelity that does not tire.

You who inspired Teresa of Jesus with such great love for this glorious Patriarch, kindle in us too that same filial affection,
so that we may experience what she herself affirmed with such simplicity and firmness:

«I took for my advocate and lord the glorious Saint Joseph, and commended myself earnestly to him…
I do not remember up to this time having ever asked anything of him which he has failed to grant.»

Amen.

Joseph, when the Gospel shows us your life in Nazareth it allows us to glimpse a scene of profound humanity and incomparable greatness, a scene so simple in appearance that the world might pass by it without noticing its mystery; but in that hidden life the human Heart of the Redeemer was being formed and the true dignity of paternity was being manifested, in a silent way. Because there, in that poor and silent house, you exercised a true paternity over the Son of God. It was not an apparent or symbolic paternity; it was real, concrete, everyday, made of simple gestures and constant fidelities.

The Child Jesus looked at you as his father; he learned from your example; he listened to your voice upon waking each morning and saw your hands work to sustain the life of the home. He observed you in the workshop, saw your patience in humble tasks, your seriousness in work well done, your uprightness in dealings with others; and thus, in the silence of daily life, he was learning what it means to live as a man among men. Thus God wanted the eternal Word to grow under your care, learning from you obedience, work, and daily fidelity.

What a great mystery, Joseph! The Son of God wanted to need you; he wanted to receive daily bread from your hands, he wanted to hear your advice and learn from your example the dignity of human work. He who had created the heart of man also wanted to learn from a father’s heart the simple wisdom of family life. And in that mystery something profoundly consoling is revealed for all fathers: God wanted his own Son to grow under the guidance of a human father.

In a time like ours, in which paternity appears wounded or weakened, your figure shines with singular strength. Because in you are united the calm authority of the father, the prudence of the guide, and the patience of the man who knows how to wait for the growth of his children. Your authority did not arise from power or imposition, but from the uprightness of your life. True paternity has much of service and sacrifice: it consists in sustaining, protecting, guiding, watching over the growth of those entrusted to a father’s care. And all this you lived with a fidelity that the Gospel barely mentions, but that heaven contemplates with admiration.

Teresa, who experienced your help so many times, spoke of you with a conviction that sprang from experience and that deeply illuminates this mission of yours: «I have not known anyone who truly has devotion to him and makes particular services to him, who does not see himself more advanced in virtue.» Because whoever learns from you also learns to live with that inner uprightness that sustains Christian life.

Teach us, Joseph, father and lord, that strong and serene paternity that does not impose itself with harshness, but guides with example; that does not dominate, but protects; that does not abandon when difficulties arrive, but remains faithful even when sacrifice seems great. Make Christian fathers learn from you to sustain their homes with patience and love; may they discover in your life the value of daily fidelity, of silent presence, of authority that arises from service and not from dominion.

And make every Christian family resemble, even a little, that silent house of Nazareth where God wanted to dwell among men; where work, prayer, and mutual love formed a simple and profound harmony, and where your father’s heart guarded for years the human growth of the Savior of the world. Because when a home resembles Nazareth, there you dwell, and Mary, and your Jesus.

Concluding Prayer to the Most Holy Virgin

Most holy Mary, faithful Spouse of the glorious Patriarch Saint Joseph
and blessed Mother of our Lord Jesus Christ:
your life was inseparably united to that of that just man
to whom God entrusted the care of your days and the custody of the eternal Son made Child.

You knew better than anyone the silent nobility of Joseph:
his noiseless faith, his prompt obedience, his clean heart,
his humble work in the workshop of Nazareth,
his loving vigilance over the Child who slept under your roof.

You saw how, day after day,
he sustained the life of the Holy Family with the effort of his hands;
how he watched over you in uncertain nights;
how he obeyed the voice of God
even when the path opened amid shadows.

And beside him you yourself lived that hidden life that the world scarcely knows,
but that heaven contemplates with admiration:
life of profound prayer and humble work,
of silent mortification and constant fidelity to God’s plan.

Teach us, Immaculate Mother, to love that hidden life of Nazareth;
to discover the greatness of the small,
the fruitfulness of silent sacrifice
and the peace that comes from living entirely for God.

Oh, Mary, how much Joseph loved you and how his heart rejoiced in serving you;
That is why today, with humble delicacy, he leads us to you.
Because Joseph’s heart, so strong and so noble,
knows that no one approaches Jesus with greater security than through your hand.

That is why we come to you today with filial confidence:
teach us to go to Joseph with love;
make us learn to take refuge under his patronage,
to trust in his powerful intercession and to imitate the fidelity of his life.

What sweet contention!:
Joseph, with elegant chivalry, leads us toward you;
You, with spousal wisdom, lead us to Joseph;
and both, with the tenderness of parents, always place us with Jesus.

May we, taken by your united hands,
learn to love the Lord more and more
and to desire with all our soul that his reign extend throughout the world.

Make it so, Mary, that the Heart of your Son reign in our lives,
in our families and in the entire Church.
And may we, sustained by your maternal love and the protection of the glorious Saint Joseph, always live in the fidelity of Nazareth,
until the day when we can contemplate Jesus forever in the glory of heaven.
Amen.

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